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friendly,easy going and i want a submissive partner that is ready and willing to serve me i will prefer older men
Female (46) San Antonio, Texas
I’m both Sapiosexual & Demisexual! πŸ›‘ Do not use honorifics or pet names with me unless you’ve been given explicit permission to do so! 😜 I’m being my authentic NeuroSpicy self, living this lifestyle in kink & BDSM. I’m always interested in making friends as well as connecting with old friends, but it takes more than just chemistry to go further. Consistency, communication , and transparency are also important elements. Remember to be polite when messaging me or I not respond. I may be kinky, but I’m still a Lady πŸ’‹. So remember your manners πŸ˜‰ I’m active on FetLife : LavenderMoon7 I enjoy impact, but no whips & I enjoy bondage, but no ropes. πŸ‘If you like my profile & pics, don’t be shy, send me a message πŸ‘ Limits: ***, urine, ***, ***, ***, race play, anything illegal, anyone underage
Female (49) San Antonio, Texas
I'm a hearted, and balanced woman who values harmony in life. I appreciate both quiet moments in nature and dynamic, creative pursuits. Kindness, responsibility, and emotional intelligence are important to mein myself and in others. I believe in building relationships based on trust, mutual support, and genuine connection, where both people feel safe, understood, and happy together.I enjoy a creative and active lifestyle. I stay fit through regular workouts and love spending time in natureespecially by the sea, which always recharges my soul.I am looking for a kind, responsible, and emotionally intelligent man with a good sense of humor. He should be genuine, reliable, and able to communicate openly. Most importantly, I want to feel calm, safe, and completely myself when I am with him. I dream of a partner who values harmony, respects nature, and appreciates both quiet moments by the sea and meaningful conversations. He does not need to be perfectbut he should be honest, caring, and ready to build a relationship based on trust, mutual support, and shared joy. Together, we'd create a peaceful, loving space where both of us can grow, laugh, and simply enjoy life side by side
Female (52) San Antonio, Texas
Hi my name is Amber I'm 41 years old...just moved here from Utah in August last year....I enjoy Rough sex, Daddy Dom. I'm pretty submissive girl in the bedroom and sexually. I enjoy Anime, and Doctor who among other things. I enjoy Jane Austen and Shakespeare. I do have a Daughter she is 19..at the moment I sadly can't work and do not have a car or license have to use public transportation.
Female (41) San Antonio, Texas
Hello There! First and foremost, welcome! Now that we got the pleasantries out of the way, here’s a little bit about me. My name is Jax, and we recently moved from Miami, Florida to San Antonio, Texas. I have many different hobbies like video games, different types of music, I’m a huge bookworm and Harry Potter/Disney fanatic, a friend to all ***s, love to cook, and I have a green thumb. Orchids are some of my favorite plants to grow along with perennials. I’ve always said that I would be the happiest living on a farm or in the forest ;) I’m happily married to a wonderful man and we are 100% committed to our relationship but we do play with others since I allow him to have a pet of his own and I’m looking for something more in the friends with benefits side since we started in a new city. We're both healthy and have no STDs at all. I am plus size but curvier with pale skin and nerd glasses. I’m Demisexual and had several bad encounters previously that trust is a must. To me, building a friendship is the most important thing and being Demisexual means that I must be emotionally connected and feel safe with someone to feel attraction to that person and enjoy the kink or sexual part of kinks. I always make it a point to have both of our needs met because this lifestyle is mutual benefit while keeping things safe and I'm open to trying many things while having open honesty from my friends/partners. Communication and honesty are important in any friendship/relationship and I expect honesty upfront. As well, I do whore out my husband as a foot slut so if you wish to have a free foot rub, feel free to reach out ;) he's very interested in getting his reflexology tested. I'm on Discord and Telegram if you want to chat! == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Switch 98% Rigger 96% Voyeur 93% Dominant 87% Brat tamer 84% Exhibitionist 80% Submissive 78% Sadist 76% Owner 75% Experimentalist 72% Degrader 68% Rope bunny 68% Non-monogamist 61% Masochist 51% Master/Mistress 45% Vanilla 39% Primal (Hunter) 35% Brat 35% Primal (Prey) 22% Pet 17% Slave 0% Ageplayer 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Degradee 0% Boy/Girl
Female (36) San Antonio, Texas
Looking for someone to peak my interest, entertain me, make me feel wanted/needed & adored. I want something intense but not deep emotionally just someone who loves to please just as much as I do. I dominate as long as you dominate I want to feel out of control while also being in control when I need to be and put you in your place ️for all you disgusting men who want vip access https://***
Female (27) San Antonio, Texas
Submissive β€’ Kinky β€’ Curious Looking for a pleasure dom with a playful side. I’m into bondage, praise, role-play, and exploring new things with someone I can trust. 25+, plaid-wearer, good with their hands, and capable of holding a conversation beyond β€œhey beautiful” = bonus points. πŸ˜‰ Chemistry first, questions second, meeting when it feels right. Safety, consent, and mutual respect are non-negotiable.
Female (33) San Antonio, Texas
You can call me Emi :3 I'm a ray of sunshine with an attitude but I really am so sweet. I'm looking for subs who need love and maybe even a home
Female (24) San Antonio, Texas
Feisty 😈 redhead, openand ready to explore a world of new things. FWB, Dom/Sub, open to many ideas. let’s chat,see if we click then go from there. Capture my mind and you get my whole body Let me answer a few questions that I know you are going to ask : yes I love to give BJ, yes I will swallow (with a chaser) yes I can deep throat, and I do not really have a gag reflex. please start the conversation by telling me what song would you say describes you and your life?
Female (44) San Antonio, Texas
I am new to the BDSM lifestyle but have been interested in quite a while. I am looking for a DOM to teach me the proper way to be submissive. I have always been the one in charge (of my life) and I am ready to let go and be appreciated for once. You bring the ideas, I will bring my body ☺️ I could care less about dick pics and. sending you nudes. I am ready for a serious Dom/Sub relationship.
Female (44) San Antonio, Texas
I love to sever and be put in my place may be trouble at first but if you can get full control it'll be worth the while
Female (24) San Antonio, Texas
I am very driven towards success and love intelligence. Looking to spice up my marriage if you want to join us or we can go one on one for the right person who can earn my trust.
Female (44) San Antonio, Texas
Hi my name is Hannah and I am one hell of a brat. So far no one can handle my constant attitude! I hope you meet some very cool people and make some friends as well!
Female (24) San Antonio, Texas
hi im interested in exploring so swingers party's,mmf, mff,mmmf and more i am open to arrangements but mainly here to have fun make friends I love outdoors I have cats I love to go out or go to the mall im always ok with trying new foods my favorite is Ramen and seafood I play video games and I have alot of tattoos πŸ˜‹ I enjoy the museums if u wanna talk ask me anything insta badbunnybabygirls if u can't reach me here
Female (22) San Antonio, Texas
I’m here to stay baby!! this app freaked on me for the first time! won’t let me get into my OG app but I remember some of my chats! so don’t be a stranger message Sucia Sakura for the sweetest cherry Pie ✨🏻
Female (27) San Antonio, Texas
I like being made do what I'm told because I have a hard time pushing back to test limits... it excites me to be possessed or owned ... looking to see if I really like it or the idea of it ..
Female (34) San Antonio, Texas
Hi there! I am looking for a dominant to literally control everything I do! I am wanting a committed relationship and obviously I am all about communication, trust, honesty, an aftercare for both parties! I am also a brat, and enjoy a stricter dom. somebody who is willing to set rules (not just sexual) and reward/punish when it calls for it! I am very much an indoors person, I love just getting to know someone and learning everything about them!
Female (20) San Antonio, Texas
intelligent conversation is a must. I know exactly what I’m looking for, but I won’t know it until I feel it.
Female (57) San Antonio, Texas
submissive/shy/mentally ill/nerdy/bbw/bratty β™‘420 friendly β™‘love all types bods (especially dad bods) β™‘Love to game so maybe hmu and we could play β™‘Nicotine and anxiety are my vibes β™‘If you'd fuck a tranny don't hmu (if you are a tranny I'm only down to be friends and chat) β™‘5'3 β™‘26 β™‘I need a daddy dom ~hmu if you wanna just chat tho I'm fine with that!
Female (27) San Antonio, Texas
New sub looking for a soft, caring Dom who is also an experienced rigger. I’d love to explore rope and become a rope bunny with someone patient who enjoys teaching and guiding me. I’m also very much into foot worship 🦢 and want a Dom who genuinely enjoys that dynamic. I’m looking for someone I can trust, communicate openly with, and build a real connection with. I’m new to D/s, so patience, consent, safety, and aftercare are important to me. I’m excited to discover more of what I enjoy with the right person. ☺️
Female (21) San Antonio, Texas
A bratty princess. incredibly picky. not for the weak-willed. I am not a service sub, I am a little/princess, I expect to be taken care of, do not expect me to take care of or caregive you. I do not Dom, I am picky about looks, personality, sense of humor, music taste. I do not deal with MAGA or conservative men, period. and once again for the idiots in the back I DO NOT DEAL WITH SWITCHES, I WILL NOT DOM, I DO NOT CARE GIVE, I AM NOT A SERVICE SUB. I am a bratty little princess and expect to be treated as such. Not into big dudes. highly selective about looks, preference for metal heads, must be able to deal with wide and varied music taste, tattoos and piercings preferred, again NO MAGA OR CONSERVATIVES, must have a dark sense of humor, do not message me if you are over 38, not into age gaps.
Female (33) San Antonio, Texas
I’m kinda softish top/domme and looking for an NSA good boy for me to practice how to spank without bruising. Mistakes will obviously happen but I’ll put ice on it. I also have all sorts of electro gear and wax to test on my guinea pig Sex is unlikely. No kissing. If you DM I'll consider it consent but we can negotiate and let you pick what I can use on you.
Female (47) San Antonio, Texas
looking for friends who are involved in the San Antonio kink scene to get me connected!
Female (22) San Antonio, Texas
looking for DD for this spoiled brat little. I like to tease and make you want more. Friends, and LTR are what I am looking for. I want to feel wanted and loved.
Female (41) San Antonio, Texas

New members in San Antonio

Hi my name is Amber I'm 41 years old...just moved here from Utah in August last year....I enjoy Rough sex, Daddy Dom. I'm pretty submissive girl in the bedroom and sexually. I enjoy Anime, and Doctor who among other things. I enjoy Jane Austen and Shakespeare. I do have a Daughter she is 19..at the moment I sadly can't work and do not have a car or license have to use public transportation.
Female (41) San Antonio, Texas
I'm a hearted, and balanced woman who values harmony in life. I appreciate both quiet moments in nature and dynamic, creative pursuits. Kindness, responsibility, and emotional intelligence are important to mein myself and in others. I believe in building relationships based on trust, mutual support, and genuine connection, where both people feel safe, understood, and happy together.I enjoy a creative and active lifestyle. I stay fit through regular workouts and love spending time in natureespecially by the sea, which always recharges my soul.I am looking for a kind, responsible, and emotionally intelligent man with a good sense of humor. He should be genuine, reliable, and able to communicate openly. Most importantly, I want to feel calm, safe, and completely myself when I am with him. I dream of a partner who values harmony, respects nature, and appreciates both quiet moments by the sea and meaningful conversations. He does not need to be perfectbut he should be honest, caring, and ready to build a relationship based on trust, mutual support, and shared joy. Together, we'd create a peaceful, loving space where both of us can grow, laugh, and simply enjoy life side by side
Female (52) San Antonio, Texas
friendly,easy going and i want a submissive partner that is ready and willing to serve me i will prefer older men
Female (46) San Antonio, Texas
Looking for someone to peak my interest, entertain me, make me feel wanted/needed & adored. I want something intense but not deep emotionally just someone who loves to please just as much as I do. I dominate as long as you dominate I want to feel out of control while also being in control when I need to be and put you in your place ️for all you disgusting men who want vip access https://***
Female (27) San Antonio, Texas
I’m both Sapiosexual & Demisexual! πŸ›‘ Do not use honorifics or pet names with me unless you’ve been given explicit permission to do so! 😜 I’m being my authentic NeuroSpicy self, living this lifestyle in kink & BDSM. I’m always interested in making friends as well as connecting with old friends, but it takes more than just chemistry to go further. Consistency, communication , and transparency are also important elements. Remember to be polite when messaging me or I not respond. I may be kinky, but I’m still a Lady πŸ’‹. So remember your manners πŸ˜‰ I’m active on FetLife : LavenderMoon7 I enjoy impact, but no whips & I enjoy bondage, but no ropes. πŸ‘If you like my profile & pics, don’t be shy, send me a message πŸ‘ Limits: ***, urine, ***, ***, ***, race play, anything illegal, anyone underage
Female (49) San Antonio, Texas
Hello There! First and foremost, welcome! Now that we got the pleasantries out of the way, here’s a little bit about me. My name is Jax, and we recently moved from Miami, Florida to San Antonio, Texas. I have many different hobbies like video games, different types of music, I’m a huge bookworm and Harry Potter/Disney fanatic, a friend to all ***s, love to cook, and I have a green thumb. Orchids are some of my favorite plants to grow along with perennials. I’ve always said that I would be the happiest living on a farm or in the forest ;) I’m happily married to a wonderful man and we are 100% committed to our relationship but we do play with others since I allow him to have a pet of his own and I’m looking for something more in the friends with benefits side since we started in a new city. We're both healthy and have no STDs at all. I am plus size but curvier with pale skin and nerd glasses. I’m Demisexual and had several bad encounters previously that trust is a must. To me, building a friendship is the most important thing and being Demisexual means that I must be emotionally connected and feel safe with someone to feel attraction to that person and enjoy the kink or sexual part of kinks. I always make it a point to have both of our needs met because this lifestyle is mutual benefit while keeping things safe and I'm open to trying many things while having open honesty from my friends/partners. Communication and honesty are important in any friendship/relationship and I expect honesty upfront. As well, I do whore out my husband as a foot slut so if you wish to have a free foot rub, feel free to reach out ;) he's very interested in getting his reflexology tested. I'm on Discord and Telegram if you want to chat! == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Switch 98% Rigger 96% Voyeur 93% Dominant 87% Brat tamer 84% Exhibitionist 80% Submissive 78% Sadist 76% Owner 75% Experimentalist 72% Degrader 68% Rope bunny 68% Non-monogamist 61% Masochist 51% Master/Mistress 45% Vanilla 39% Primal (Hunter) 35% Brat 35% Primal (Prey) 22% Pet 17% Slave 0% Ageplayer 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Degradee 0% Boy/Girl
Female (36) San Antonio, Texas
First off I definitely want to mention that I do have a plus size mom bod. I understand that’s not everyone’s cup of tea. Rock/Metal music is my go to but I do listen to other styles. Slipknot is my all time favorite band. I have a goth babe style when I dress up and a relaxed rocker style when I’m normal lol. I love going to live shows with my partner or just chilling at a bar and play some billards. My hobby is Photography. I haven’t done much lately but have been really interested in learning/practicing more about boudoir photography. I’m a Sadist, Vixen, Hotwife, Dominatrix, and Sapiosexual. I’ve been in a 🍍 ENM relationship for 11yrs but we’ve been together longer. We play together and separate. He is straight and his roles are Stag, Bull, & Dom. I also would like more female friends in the lifestyle! I also currently have a boot fetish pup for 5yrs now.
Female (35) San Antonio, Texas
hi! _(: P 」)_ i’ve always harbored a love for submissive men. i adore men who are soft and yielding and needy, and all i want is to find a cute guy who i can nurture and tease and lovingly ***. harder to find than you would think, but i know someone like that has to be out there, right? message me if you are that cute guy who needs a woman better than him to cradle his head in her chest and tease him til he sobs then feed him ice cream. doesn’t that sound like a good time?
Female (26) San Antonio, Texas
You can call me Emi :3 I'm a ray of sunshine with an attitude but I really am so sweet. I'm looking for subs who need love and maybe even a home
Female (24) San Antonio, Texas
Feisty 😈 redhead, openand ready to explore a world of new things. FWB, Dom/Sub, open to many ideas. let’s chat,see if we click then go from there. Capture my mind and you get my whole body Let me answer a few questions that I know you are going to ask : yes I love to give BJ, yes I will swallow (with a chaser) yes I can deep throat, and I do not really have a gag reflex. please start the conversation by telling me what song would you say describes you and your life?
Female (44) San Antonio, Texas
I am very driven towards success and love intelligence. Looking to spice up my marriage if you want to join us or we can go one on one for the right person who can earn my trust.
Female (44) San Antonio, Texas
I love to sever and be put in my place may be trouble at first but if you can get full control it'll be worth the while
Female (24) San Antonio, Texas
New sub looking for a soft, caring Dom who is also an experienced rigger. I’d love to explore rope and become a rope bunny with someone patient who enjoys teaching and guiding me. I’m also very much into foot worship 🦢 and want a Dom who genuinely enjoys that dynamic. I’m looking for someone I can trust, communicate openly with, and build a real connection with. I’m new to D/s, so patience, consent, safety, and aftercare are important to me. I’m excited to discover more of what I enjoy with the right person. ☺️
Female (21) San Antonio, Texas
I am new to the BDSM lifestyle but have been interested in quite a while. I am looking for a DOM to teach me the proper way to be submissive. I have always been the one in charge (of my life) and I am ready to let go and be appreciated for once. You bring the ideas, I will bring my body ☺️ I could care less about dick pics and. sending you nudes. I am ready for a serious Dom/Sub relationship.
Female (44) San Antonio, Texas
Submissive β€’ Kinky β€’ Curious Looking for a pleasure dom with a playful side. I’m into bondage, praise, role-play, and exploring new things with someone I can trust. 25+, plaid-wearer, good with their hands, and capable of holding a conversation beyond β€œhey beautiful” = bonus points. πŸ˜‰ Chemistry first, questions second, meeting when it feels right. Safety, consent, and mutual respect are non-negotiable.
Female (33) San Antonio, Texas
honestly I hate descriptions tell me what you’re into and we will go from there.
Female (26) San Antonio, Texas
hi im interested in exploring so swingers party's,mmf, mff,mmmf and more i am open to arrangements but mainly here to have fun make friends I love outdoors I have cats I love to go out or go to the mall im always ok with trying new foods my favorite is Ramen and seafood I play video games and I have alot of tattoos πŸ˜‹ I enjoy the museums if u wanna talk ask me anything insta badbunnybabygirls if u can't reach me here
Female (22) San Antonio, Texas
I like being made do what I'm told because I have a hard time pushing back to test limits... it excites me to be possessed or owned ... looking to see if I really like it or the idea of it ..
Female (34) San Antonio, Texas
I’m trying to find my likes and dislikes after coming out of a long complicated marriage. I’m cute, short, and small. I love being submissive and obeying, but I am interested in the dominatrix type of fun. I’m ready to Explore ❀️
Female (29) San Antonio, Texas
I’m in an open relationship. I’m not looking for anything long-term, serious, or IRL. Just sexting and having some fun and exploring my desires with other ppl. β€’ INTO free use, ***, ***, name-calling, consensual-non-consent, objectification, dumbification, somnophilia, cum tributes, misogyny. β€’
Female (22) San Antonio, Texas
I’m kinda softish top/domme and looking for an NSA good boy for me to practice how to spank without bruising. Mistakes will obviously happen but I’ll put ice on it. I also have all sorts of electro gear and wax to test on my guinea pig Sex is unlikely. No kissing. If you DM I'll consider it consent but we can negotiate and let you pick what I can use on you.
Female (47) San Antonio, Texas
I’m here to meet others who value both an intellectual and physical connection. I am interested in people who prioritize the gym and their physical health. I enjoy, hiking, weightlifting, horror books and movies, travel and spending time with people I cherish. πŸ–€Trust, mutual respect, communication and calm/grounded energy are paramount. I enjoy D/s dynamics, clear boundaries, and attention to aftercare. I prefer getting to know someone before diving into intense play. πŸ–€
Female (45) San Antonio, Texas
I'm married and want a "boyfriend"/"boytoy" while my husband is away at work. Boy toy needs to spoil me, with dates, ***, and a good fucking. Sometimes my husband would like to join in on the fun.
Female (31) San Antonio, Texas

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