Licking the window for me is an advanced form of flirting.
Spoiled, a bit of a menace, addicted to growth and depth. Want a partner who's my emotional rock and favorite distraction.
**I know how to build real intimacy and solve conflicts, do your part and nothing will do us apart.** My average relationship lasts 3-5 years. Love and friendship can last longer. I have people I've been friends with for over 30 years.
I can't reply to all DM's and too many low quality options so let's narrow down.
**Dudes who don't know how to love women into submission, good luck on your search. I'm not for you.**
At first I'm a fucking flower.
**I'm *** intolerant.**
I'm a switch, I tend to be hard top, soft bottom, but I feel agony giving impact and *** to people I care for, unless I'm ***ed at them and they ask me to show it, with mutual consent and a pinch of frustration I can rage fuck. lol
**I'm turned on badly for a person who upfront provides and sustains emotional accountability, protects me, makes me feel safe and secure, nourishing, healing, thoughtful, and loves to make me smile.** Knows how to apologize when a limit is crossed. That is what creates trust.
**When provided emotionally I surrender fully, I become easy to satisfy, kinkier and more open minded in bed.**
I want a man who gives me upfront what I want emotionally. Only in return, I'll be soft, warm, receptive, holding space and peace. With one who doesn't, it lacks exchange balance, becomes unsustainable, laborious, and fake for me to do it. I know that is rare and I appreciate it intensely.
**I've been single 6 years cuz dynamics where I am expected to be a woman for a man that is not a man, it's a bare table to me, I ain't sitting at it.** I won't try to make them change or wait around for things to improve. I'll just move on. To me that's the man-woman exchange I'm into.
Without that, D/s is make-believe/pretense and I'm spoiled by great exes.
I've fallen for emotional providers before while in relationships. **I'm monogamous, I don't want to cheat or replace again.** So men not ready for a mature dynamic, it's off limits.
**I like to be nourished and cared for into subspace.** Otherwise I take control and top, as a top I can't get satisfaction. I've walked away from things I desired but weren't good for me, many times before.
**Adults only. No youngsters. No toxic masculinity.**
**Safety first.**
Limits:
***, push, throw, tongue suck, and gag your mother if that's her thing. I tried and don't like it.
**No ***, no bruises, no capture, no ***, not into victim play.**
I fuck whoever I want deliberately and I don't need to pretend I'm being ***d to be a total whore. **I'm a sweet, obedient and a fucking whore for men who treat me well.**